Their are too many examples of people who are determined as ever to remain unhappy. It is a lifestyle choice they make to keep bottled up inside themselves only enough happiness so as not to go insane. I say this about those who would rather live to continue ugliness for most while for themselves they consider only themselves. Long ago I figured out that accepting reality as it is and then trying to make that reality better is where the happy in my life has the best opportunity to exist. Many in our world choose to forego reality and only wish to exist in an illusion of what they think is real. A vision that lacks a panoramic view and instead chooses only to focus on an obtuse or acute angle of the overall. Their mantra seems to be if I ignore this thing that I dislike or don't believe the facts of then it will no longer exist. I suppose living like that can be accomplished if one has enough resources to buy the illusion but most don't so why do they continue to do it anyway? They are unable to find their happy. They cannot accept what is in front of them because they refuse to believe reality. It is as if their minds won't allow them to expand beyond the illusion to the rational. Until they are able to understand that they do control how they feel about things that bother them and learn to accept the solutions right in front of them then the status quo of being unhappy and making those around them unhappy will continue. The worst part of it is that the ugliness they allow to exist has consequences on those who have no way of changing that ugliness without their help.
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